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The Star-Telegram October 26, 2003

The Journal News October 25, 2003

Los Angeles Times October 7, 2003

The New York Times September 21, 2003

San Francisco Chronicle September 14, 2003

Oakland Tribune September 11, 2003

New York Daily News September 2, 2003

Denver Post August 31, 2003

Book Page September Review

Publishers Weekly, August 11
Starred review

MIDDLETOWN, AMERICA: One Town’s Passage from Trauma to Hope
With nearly 50 victims, the commuter hamlet of Middletown, N.J., and its environs suffered the “largest concentrated death toll” on September 11 of anyplace in America. A “town with no middle,” Middletown consists of affluent financiers and working-class police officers and firefighters—two groups that were hit particularly hard in the attacks. Bestselling author Sheehy (Passages;Hillary’s Choice; etc.), who spent almost two years observing the residents’ reactions to the staggering loss, explores how this high-end suburb, for which the closest thing to a social fabric was a ferocious sensitivity to social status, dealt with the tragedy. Sheehy ignores governmental machinations in order to describe the welter of emotions ordinary Americans experienced. The enemy of cliché is detail—and Sheehy’s months in the town yield subtle, detailed portraits that confound easy images of “strength” or “denial” (although those are also present). Sheehy implicitly critiques modern American life: any salutary community bonding suggests a prior lack of cohesion, just as the emphasis on financial assistance tends to obscure more fundamental psychological needs. In a community filled with “prefeminist” housewives, “loss of self” became a substantial problem—who am I, if not this or that victim’s spouse? Fortunately, in addition to the considerable generosity the town evinced, survivors were able to form an “intentional family” united by grief. One sometimes hears that everyone “knows” what happened on September 11. This admirable book tells precisely the stories we could stand to hear more about. 8 pages of photos not seen byPW.(Sept. 2)

Forecast:More focused than Steven Brill’sAfter, and aided by Sheehy’s track record and a nine-city tour, this could jump onto bestseller lists. This is a BOMC main selection, and a featured alternate at QPB, the Literary Guild and Doubleday Book Club. 100,000 first printing.Gail Sheehy.Random, $25.95 (256p) ISBN 0-375-50862-7

New York Observer September 15, 2003

The Guardian (U.K.) September 11, 2003

Newark Star-Ledger September 7, 2003

LA Times September 7, 2003

New York Observer August 20, 2003

Vanity Fair, "September Widows"
9/11-One Year Later...

New Jersey Life Interview with Gail