Having
chronicled every stage of life, author Gail Sheehy now has insights
on the final stages- from the view of a caregiver.
NEWSWEEK
by Eleanor Clift
"Lecturing
this week at the Chautauqua Institution in upstate New York, Sheehy
noted that a woman who reaches the age of 50 without evidence of
cancer or heart disease can expect to live until 92. There was
a rumble of surprised delight, followed by gasps as the audience
processed the information. "Whoever prepared us for the possibility
we might live long enough to forget the name of our first husband?" Sheehy
asked.
What
happens in later life is not as predictable as the earlier stages,
she said. Society is changing, and people are taking longer to
grow up and much longer to grow old. There is enormous satisfaction
as life gets extended, but there is also illness and loss of independence.
Sheehy is currently researching a book on caregivers, a subject
she's been living with the last 15 years as her husband, the celebrated
editor and founder of New York Magazine, Clay Felker, has battled
three separate assaults by cancer. Sheehy lifts the curtain on
the army of unpaid and overworked caregivers that she calls "the
backbone of our broken health care system."
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